A letter to my beautiful wife on Dumsor

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…… ?and Prostate Cancer: Why ?You Must Protect My Prostate Gland!

My dearest Prissy

Though, I am writing you this letter, it is not only intended for you but also, to all prospective women who are reading this letter..

My dearest Prissy Though, I am writing you this letter, it is not only intended for you but also, to all prospective women who are reading this letter.. For the past number of years, we have been dating and doing lot of prostate cancer awareness programs, and eventually, you bought into the concept, and you finally accepted to become a prostate cancer ambassador for the men?s charity Men?s Health Foundation Ghana. Though, your current work as a banker is very stressful, you accepted to become an ambassador to do the campaign call ?Stand By Your Man!? One day, I read your write-up on your Facebook wall on ?Stand by Your Man!? and you told all the women on your platform to encourage the men to go for regular prostate check because you read from my articles that the prostate gland is the powerhouse of every man. So in a nutshell, if there is a problem with the man?s prostate, eventually the man suffers from erectile problems because the nerves that help in erection surrounds the prostate. So obviously, if there is a problem, it is a result of conventional treatment. One last thing that made me write to you is that you said that the men should not sleep on duty because there is already  dumsor challenges. You don?t want the men to add another dumsor to it because even at the time that there was  no dumsor, the men werebalready battling with pre-mature ejaculation, sexual challenges resulting in the men using lot of aphrodisiac minus me, so it is time to fight for them. You also said, you don?t even want dum, dum for the men in Ghana. My dearest Prissy, one thing that I was happy that you know and I pray all women should also know is that prostate cancer is not caused by frequent safe sex with your partner but however, you know that reckless sexual behavior can predispose men to prostate cancer because the man can contract sexually transmitted disease that can eventually become a problem. So, with this in mind, you have decided to not allow your man to go out and have sex with another woman. You always do your best to prevent other women for coming close to your man. You do what is very important to keep your man in the house even if there is a problem in the house. You don?t wear thigh jeans to go to bed or even use sex as an excuse to punish your man, though you are angry. I want all other women reading this letter to know this so that we can all fight against this dreaded disease. Another thing that you are aware is that you know that conventional prostate cancer treatments such as hormonal therapy, surgery, radiation, chemotherapy et al are not without side effects. The most important side effect is the man?s sex life. In fact, you know that after prostate cancer treatment, a man?s sex life is likely not to be the same again. Either the man goes off permanent or  temporal, and you are aware that about 76% of men can experience this. You feel very bad about this, judging from the fact that, if this happens to man in his forties or thirties, what will the man and his wife do? Another thing that also keeps disturbing you is the catheter in the man?s dig! You are also aware that in the case of hormone therapy, the side effects cannot be reversed  until the man stops.  Because the aim is to lower their testosterone and  the main hormone that makes them men. So in this case, the man has been transformed into a woman in the house and you call  it sleeping on duty! Yoo, I hear, but I am also proud that you know that there is support available for men. You are now encouraging the women to have an open communication with their men regarding prostate cancer treatment and dealing with the side effect of prostate cancer treatment. You also know that treatment can shrink the man?s manhood, and when you read that the manhood can be small after treatment, your face changes, and you scream  manhood for life! Yes tell the women to stand up and protect their men?s manhood for life! Because, African men always want to be the men in the house as the songwriter said, ?She loves me just because I am a strong man. My baby loves me just because I am a strong man. She wants it day and night!? Yes, but you see Pretty Prissy, the women don?t know that they have to protect their men?s prostate gland because it is the powerhouse of the men! So tell them more! One thing that I am proud that you know is that the food you prepare for the man can change the state of his prostate after forty years, so you have become more proactive on diet issues because food heals or it kills. You have to stop putting hot foods in plastic rubbers to prevent the food from being contaminated with toxins. Even if you do use plastic rubbers, wait for the food to cool down before you eat it. You now read food labels; you don?t just go and buy any cooking oil or follow advertisement on food stuffs. You have stopped cooking at late, though you are a corporate woman, and you have also stopped eating late at night. You don?t just buy any vegetables and fruits at the market, and you always pray for long life and good health. My only challenge with you is that you have to be strong, brave and courageous, and even in storms, you must stand by your man. You must show the world if you truly love someone, but not deny the man when there is a storm, and you are confused and don?t know what to do. The journey in life is unpredictable and no one knows the future so stand firm. You see Prissy, some sexual functions may return with time after treatment, but even if it doesn?t, couples can still enjoy a fulfilling sexual relationship. But today, Prissy, a man diagnosed with prostate cancer is able to enjoy his relationship with his partner fully ? both emotionally and sexually. Love me in all circumstances so that one day I can sing a song for you like these ones by Don Williams Darling, if you ever leave me Well, I?ll just put my heart away I couldn?t love again, believe me No one could please me anyway. And if another ever came along I?d just turn them down ?cause after all. I?ve been loved by the best I can?t settle now for less, Why bother with the rest Baby, I?ve been to the top, I guess, With you I have been blessed I won?t take nothin? less, I?ve been loved by the best. If you ever get tired of me Well, I won?t look for someone new ?Cause looking back on how you loved me No one could measure up to you And if they try to win this heart of mine I just have to say, a waste of time. I?ve been loved by the best I can?t settle now for less, Why bother with the rest Baby, I?ve been to the top, I guess, With you I have been blessed I won?t take nothin? less, I?ve been loved by the best When I look into your eyes I know You?re the only love I ever want ?Cause, after you and me Baby, I can see Nothin? else could be even close. I?ve been loved by the best I can?t settle now for less, Why bother with the rest Baby, I?ve been to the top I guess, With you I have been blessed I won?t take nothin less, I?ve been loved by the best? Prissy, with your campaign, Stand by Your Man, what do you want me to do with it if you leave me? Do you want another woman to take your place for what you have toiled for many years? You want to go back to class one? Darling, take a stand and be bold, because love conquers everything and I know even with prostate cancer, you have to be with me for the rest of my life. Because married men diagnosed with prostate cancer have higher survival rates than unmarried men because of the support and love they receive from their wives. So please, if you leave me here, some broken hearts  cannot be mended and Don Williams said it in this song as well: Coffee black, cigarettes, start this day, like all the rest, First thing every morning that I do, Is start missing you Some broken hearts never mend, Some memories never end, Some tears will never dry, My love for you will never die Rendezvous in the night, A willing woman to hold me tight, But in the middle of love?s embrace, I see your face Some broken hearts never mend, Some memories never end, Some tears will never dry, My love for you will never die Stand by your man. Ghanaian women reading this letter, I want you to stand by your man and Pretty Prissy, never leave me in this circumstance because I love you! That  is why, you must stay right here on Fridays as I write on prostate world, and there is no better place to get information on prostate cancer than right here.  Your Darling   In coming future Professor of Prostate Cancer  Dr. Raphael Nyarkotey Obu: ND,MSc PhD candidate in prostate cancer IBAM-India  Tel: 0500106570
My dearest Prissy
Though, I am writing you this letter, it is not only intended for you but also, to all prospective women who are reading this letter.. For the past number of years, we have been dating and doing lot of prostate cancer awareness programs, and eventually, you bought into the concept, and you finally accepted to become a prostate cancer ambassador for the men?s charity Men?s Health Foundation Ghana.
Though, your current work as a banker is very stressful, you accepted to become an ambassador to do the campaign call ?Stand By Your Man!? One day, I read your write-up on your Facebook wall on ?Stand by Your Man!? and you told all the women on your platform to encourage the men to go for regular prostate check because you read from my articles that the prostate gland is the powerhouse of every man. So in a nutshell, if there is a problem with the man?s prostate, eventually the man suffers from erectile problems because the nerves that help in erection surrounds the prostate. So obviously, if there is a problem, it is a result of conventional treatment.
One last thing that made me write to you is that you said that the men should not sleep on duty because there is already dumsor challenges. You don?t want the men to add another dumsor to it because even at the time that there was no dumsor, the men werebalready battling with pre-mature ejaculation, sexual challenges resulting in the men using lot of aphrodisiac minus me, so it is time to fight for them. You also said, you don?t even want dum, dum for the men in Ghana.
My dearest Prissy, one thing that I was happy that you know and I pray all women should also know is that prostate cancer is not caused by frequent safe sex with your partner but however, you know that reckless sexual behavior can predispose men to prostate cancer because the man can contract sexually transmitted disease that can eventually become a problem.
So, with this in mind, you have decided to not allow your man to go out and have sex with another woman. You always do your best to prevent other women for coming close to your man. You do what is very important to keep your man in the house even if there is a problem in the house. You don?t wear thigh jeans to go to bed or even use sex as an excuse to punish your man, though you are angry. I want all other women reading this letter to know this so that we can all fight against this dreaded disease.
Another thing that you are aware is that you know that conventional prostate cancer treatments such as hormonal therapy, surgery, radiation, chemotherapy et al are not without side effects. The most important side effect is the man?s sex life. In fact, you know that after prostate cancer treatment, a man?s sex life is likely not to be the same again. Either the man goes off permanent or temporal, and you are aware that about 76% of men can experience this. You feel very bad about this, judging from the fact that, if this happens to man in his forties or thirties, what will the man and his wife do? Another thing that also keeps disturbing you is the catheter in the man?s dig!
You are also aware that in the case of hormone therapy, the side effects cannot be reversed until the man stops. Because the aim is to lower their testosterone and the main hormone that makes them men. So in this case, the man has been transformed into a woman in the house and you call it sleeping on duty! Yoo, I hear, but I am also proud that you know that there is support available for men. You are now encouraging the women to have an open communication with their men regarding prostate cancer treatment and dealing with the side effect of prostate cancer treatment.
You also know that treatment can shrink the man?s manhood, and when you read that the manhood can be small after treatment, your face changes, and you scream manhood for life! Yes tell the women to stand up and protect their men?s manhood for life! Because, African men always want to be the men in the house as the songwriter said, ?She loves me just because I am a strong man. My baby loves me just because I am a strong man. She wants it day and night!? Yes, but you see Pretty Prissy, the women don?t know that they have to protect their men?s prostate gland because it is the powerhouse of the men! So tell them more!
One thing that I am proud that you know is that the food you prepare for the man can change the state of his prostate after forty years, so you have become more proactive on diet issues because food heals or it kills. You have to stop putting hot foods in plastic rubbers to prevent the food from being contaminated with toxins. Even if you do use plastic rubbers, wait for the food to cool down before you eat it. You now read food labels; you don?t just go and buy any cooking oil or follow advertisement on food stuffs. You have stopped cooking at late, though you are a corporate woman, and you have also stopped eating late at night.
You don?t just buy any vegetables and fruits at the market, and you always pray for long life and good health. My only challenge with you is that you have to be strong, brave and courageous, and even in storms, you must stand by your man. You must show the world if you truly love someone, but not deny the man when there is a storm, and you are confused and don?t know what to do. The journey in life is unpredictable and no one knows the future so stand firm.
You see Prissy, some sexual functions may return with time after treatment, but even if it doesn?t, couples can still enjoy a fulfilling sexual relationship.
But today, Prissy, a man diagnosed with prostate cancer is able to enjoy his relationship with his partner fully ? both emotionally and sexually. Love me in all circumstances so that one day I can sing a song for you like these ones by Don Williams
Darling, if you ever leave me
Well, I?ll just put my heart away
I couldn?t love again, believe me
No one could please me anyway.
And if another ever came along
I?d just turn them down ?cause after all.
I?ve been loved by the best
I can?t settle now for less,
Why bother with the rest
Baby, I?ve been to the top, I guess,
With you I have been blessed
I won?t take nothin? less,
I?ve been loved by the best.
If you ever get tired of me
Well, I won?t look for someone new
?Cause looking back on how you loved me
No one could measure up to you
And if they try to win this heart of mine
I just have to say, a waste of time.
I?ve been loved by the best
I can?t settle now for less,
Why bother with the rest
Baby, I?ve been to the top, I guess,
With you I have been blessed
I won?t take nothin? less,
I?ve been loved by the best
When I look into your eyes I know
You?re the only love I ever want
?Cause, after you and me
Baby, I can see
Nothin? else could be even close.
I?ve been loved by the best
I can?t settle now for less,
Why bother with the rest
Baby, I?ve been to the top I guess,
With you I have been blessed
I won?t take nothin less,
I?ve been loved by the best?
Prissy, with your campaign, Stand by Your Man, what do you want me to do with it if you leave me? Do you want another woman to take your place for what you have toiled for many years? You want to go back to class one? Darling, take a stand and be bold, because love conquers everything and I know even with prostate cancer, you have to be with me for the rest of my life. Because married men diagnosed with prostate cancer have higher survival rates than unmarried men because of the support and love they receive from their wives. So please, if you leave me here, some broken hearts cannot be mended and Don Williams said it in this song as well:
Coffee black, cigarettes,
start this day, like all the rest,
First thing every morning that I do,
Is start missing you
Some broken hearts never mend,
Some memories never end,
Some tears will never dry,
My love for you will never die
Rendezvous in the night,
A willing woman to hold me tight,
But in the middle of love?s embrace,
I see your face
Some broken hearts never mend,
Some memories never end,
Some tears will never dry,
My love for you will never die
Stand by your man. Ghanaian women reading this letter, I want you to stand by your man and Pretty Prissy, never leave me in this circumstance because I love you! That is why, you must stay right here on Fridays as I write on prostate world, and there is no better place to get information on prostate cancer than right here.
Your Darling
In coming future Professor of Prostate Cancer
Dr. Raphael Nyarkotey Obu: ND,MSc
PhD candidate in prostate cancer
IBAM-India
Tel: 0500106570

For the past number of years, we have been dating and doing lot of prostate cancer awareness programs, and eventually, you bought into the concept, and you finally accepted to become a prostate cancer ambassador for the men?s charity Men?s Health Foundation Ghana.
Though, your current work as a banker is very stressful, you accepted to become an ambassador to do the campaign call ?Stand By Your Man!? One day, I read your write-up on your Facebook wall on ?Stand by Your Man!? and you told all the women on your platform to encourage the men to go for regular prostate check because you read from my articles that the prostate gland is the powerhouse of every man. So in a nutshell, if there is a problem with the man?s prostate, eventually the man suffers from erectile problems because the nerves that help in erection surrounds the prostate. So obviously, if there is a problem, it is a result of conventional treatment.
One last thing that made me write to you is that you said that the men should not sleep on duty because there is already dumsor challenges. You don?t want the men to add another dumsor to it because even at the time that there was no dumsor, the men werebalready battling with pre-mature ejaculation, sexual challenges resulting in the men using lot of aphrodisiac minus me, so it is time to fight for them. You also said, you don?t even want dum, dum for the men in Ghana.
My dearest Prissy, one thing that I was happy that you know and I pray all women should also know is that prostate cancer is not caused by frequent safe sex with your partner but however, you know that reckless sexual behavior can predispose men to prostate cancer because the man can contract sexually transmitted disease that can eventually become a problem.
So, with this in mind, you have decided to not allow your man to go out and have sex with another woman. You always do your best to prevent other women for coming close to your man. You do what is very important to keep your man in the house even if there is a problem in the house. You don?t wear thigh jeans to go to bed or even use sex as an excuse to punish your man, though you are angry. I want all other women reading this letter to know this so that we can all fight against this dreaded disease.
Another thing that you are aware is that you know that conventional prostate cancer treatments such as hormonal therapy, surgery, radiation, chemotherapy et al are not without side effects. The most important side effect is the man?s sex life. In fact, you know that after prostate cancer treatment, a man?s sex life is likely not to be the same again. Either the man goes off permanent or temporal, and you are aware that about 76% of men can experience this. You feel very bad about this, judging from the fact that, if this happens to man in his forties or thirties, what will the man and his wife do? Another thing that also keeps disturbing you is the catheter in the man?s dig!
You are also aware that in the case of hormone therapy, the side effects cannot be reversed until the man stops. Because the aim is to lower their testosterone and the main hormone that makes them men. So in this case, the man has been transformed into a woman in the house and you call it sleeping on duty! Yoo, I hear, but I am also proud that you know that there is support available for men. You are now encouraging the women to have an open communication with their men regarding prostate cancer treatment and dealing with the side effect of prostate cancer treatment.
You also know that treatment can shrink the man?s manhood, and when you read that the manhood can be small after treatment, your face changes, and you scream manhood for life! Yes tell the women to stand up and protect their men?s manhood for life! Because, African men always want to be the men in the house as the songwriter said, ?She loves me just because I am a strong man. My baby loves me just because I am a strong man. She wants it day and night!? Yes, but you see Pretty Prissy, the women don?t know that they have to protect their men?s prostate gland because it is the powerhouse of the men! So tell them more!
One thing that I am proud that you know is that the food you prepare for the man can change the state of his prostate after forty years, so you have become more proactive on diet issues because food heals or it kills. You have to stop putting hot foods in plastic rubbers to prevent the food from being contaminated with toxins. Even if you do use plastic rubbers, wait for the food to cool down before you eat it. You now read food labels; you don?t just go and buy any cooking oil or follow advertisement on food stuffs. You have stopped cooking at late, though you are a corporate woman, and you have also stopped eating late at night.
You don?t just buy any vegetables and fruits at the market, and you always pray for long life and good health. My only challenge with you is that you have to be strong, brave and courageous, and even in storms, you must stand by your man. You must show the world if you truly love someone, but not deny the man when there is a storm, and you are confused and don?t know what to do. The journey in life is unpredictable and no one knows the future so stand firm.
You see Prissy, some sexual functions may return with time after treatment, but even if it doesn?t, couples can still enjoy a fulfilling sexual relationship.
But today, Prissy, a man diagnosed with prostate cancer is able to enjoy his relationship with his partner fully ? both emotionally and sexually. Love me in all circumstances so that one day I can sing a song for you like these ones by Don Williams
Darling, if you ever leave me
Well, I?ll just put my heart away
I couldn?t love again, believe me
No one could please me anyway.
And if another ever came along
I?d just turn them down ?cause after all.
I?ve been loved by the best
I can?t settle now for less,
Why bother with the rest
Baby, I?ve been to the top, I guess,
With you I have been blessed
I won?t take nothin? less,
I?ve been loved by the best.
If you ever get tired of me
Well, I won?t look for someone new
?Cause looking back on how you loved me
No one could measure up to you
And if they try to win this heart of mine
I just have to say, a waste of time.
I?ve been loved by the best
I can?t settle now for less,
Why bother with the rest
Baby, I?ve been to the top, I guess,
With you I have been blessed
I won?t take nothin? less,
I?ve been loved by the best
When I look into your eyes I know
You?re the only love I ever want
?Cause, after you and me
Baby, I can see
Nothin? else could be even close.
I?ve been loved by the best
I can?t settle now for less,
Why bother with the rest
Baby, I?ve been to the top I guess,
With you I have been blessed
I won?t take nothin less,
I?ve been loved by the best?
Prissy, with your campaign, Stand by Your Man, what do you want me to do with it if you leave me? Do you want another woman to take your place for what you have toiled for many years? You want to go back to class one? Darling, take a stand and be bold, because love conquers everything and I know even with prostate cancer, you have to be with me for the rest of my life. Because married men diagnosed with prostate cancer have higher survival rates than unmarried men because of the support and love they receive from their wives. So please, if you leave me here, some broken hearts cannot be mended and Don Williams said it in this song as well:
Coffee black, cigarettes,
start this day, like all the rest,
First thing every morning that I do,
Is start missing you
Some broken hearts never mend,
Some memories never end,
Some tears will never dry,
My love for you will never die
Rendezvous in the night,
A willing woman to hold me tight,
But in the middle of love?s embrace,
I see your face
Some broken hearts never mend,
Some memories never end,
Some tears will never dry,
My love for you will never die
Stand by your man. Ghanaian women reading this letter, I want you to stand by your man and Pretty Prissy, never leave me in this circumstance because I love you! That is why, you must stay right here on Fridays as I write on prostate world, and there is no better place to get information on prostate cancer than right here.

Your Darling

In coming future Professor of Prostate Cancer

Dr. Raphael Nyarkotey Obu: ND,MSc
PhD candidate in prostate cancer
IBAM-India

Tel: 0500106570

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