I’m a 18-year-old guy who is still doing my diploma at one of the colleges in town. A lot of my friends always talk about their s*xual encounters with their girlfriends, and that forced me to be eager to know how nice s*x is. Since I had been so close to our maid, we started hugging and bathing together when my parents were not around. Eventually we started having s*x.
My problem is that last week I saw my dad’s pant under the maid’s bedroom. I just brushed it aside but I have never heard my dad arguing with our maid or being harsh on her, so I almost got convinced that they could be seeing each other. Yesterday I saw at least 2 messages in my dad’s phone that my dad had sent to our maid. I didn’t manage to read them, but they were sent to our maid’s cell number. Should I confront our maid, or should I tell mum what I saw?