Low self-esteem seems to stem from a sense of minor value when compared to others. Self-Help can show you now how you can overcome this constant feeling of being «less than». The first thing you need to understand is that each one of us is unique. The second is that you deserve to help yourself to the best of your knowledge and abilities. And the third, perhaps most difficult to believe, is that you are meant to accomplish a successful life.

To be successful does not mean to drive expensive cars or to own great mansions. Unfortunately, that is likely to be the standard to measure success that some of your friends or relatives use when referring to you: «You should really get a new car/boat/house/child. Look up to…, he/she made it». The tip here is: don’t let your lifestyle be compared to anyone else.

Even if people speak up their mind, do not let that idea sneak into your mind. Usually those comparisons are far from just.

At all times, be sure of your self-worth. You have something of your own to give this world, even if you don’t know what that could be. Believe your potential will be fully accomplished when you are living your dream.

Low self-esteem does not need to keep you company along your path. Leave it with all the hate, prejudice and destructiveness that heaven your burden. Learn from your past mistakes, but surpass guilt, regret and self-punishment by loving yourself.

“Cast your heart before you, then run to catch it.” This Arab proverb is very wise, because it encourages you to follow your inner intuition.

Your inner voice speaks your truth.

Low self-esteem comes when you are not true to your inner light. When you shut out that small voice of radiance, you start to have doubts about what to do. You may also look to the neighbor’s kitchen and want to have something like that. Envy and self-depreciation show their not so nice heads and you start wondering… well, leave it at that.

 To overcome your minor sense of self-integrity, you may want to experience a glam moment. It is not about any make-up or instant dressing rooms, though that can also be a nice way to get in contact with who you want to be. Just stop for a moment and think: how far have you come in reaching your dreams? Bring glam to this moment by imagining your way described as a movie in which you begin very low in life and now… you are in the present circumstances. Open your eyes. Be grateful for everything you have reached so far. Pat yourself in the back if you must, but know that what you got is due to your ability to seize the chances given to you.

Shut low self-esteem out. The past is to be left alone except for learning its lessons. Today is a new day and a new life waits for you to make it come true.

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