Ijeoma, a US-based Nigerian woman, has ignited online discussions after sharing her straightforward expectations for the kind of husband she wants. In a candid post, she made it clear that she desires a financially supportive partner.
“I want to be financially provided for,” she declared, stressing the importance of her future husband providing her with a regular allowance. “I need a man who will be giving me money every two weeks for my personal needs,” she added.
Ijeoma explained that even though she has her own income, she expects her husband to cover her personal expenses—such as clothing, cosmetics, and shoes—regularly. “My husband’s money is our money,” she emphasized, asserting that she believes the financial responsibilities in the relationship should largely fall on the husband.
She further elaborated on her belief that a husband should be the primary breadwinner, responsible for managing the household finances and covering all of her needs. “He should take full responsibility for managing household finances and providing for all my needs,” she explained.
Her post has sparked a range of reactions. While some people applaud her honesty and transparency about her desires, others have criticized her expectations, questioning whether such a financial dynamic is realistic or fair. The debate continues to unfold, with many discussing what roles finances should play in modern relationships.
