I know women who will say and insist the man must wear condoms until they are married to them as if STDS will disappear the moment a ring is placed on the finger?
Personally, I do not like the TEST concept where before beginning to sleep together, each party undergoes a TEST to establish whether they are STD free or not.
My problem with the TEST concept is, what happens if a man or woman passes such a test and the next day he goes to sleep with another person, catching something from the person?Would you always ask for a test anytime you guys have to sleep together? Certainly Not?
This brings us to the question; when do you insist the condom must be on?
My friend told me this true but scary story about the way we live our sexual health life. Most men and women will insist on a condom when they first meet or start sleeping with a person. The moment the fun graduates to become a serious relationship, the condom is forgotten.
At this time (enjoying a serious relationship), has whatever each person carries disappeared? Is it not the same person you were protecting yourself from that you are now sleeping with ?RAW? just because you guys are serious?
Having a healthy sex life can be difficult, especially if you want to enjoy it.
For me, even though I know a man can cheat and catch something (which he can bring to you), I believe having a single sex-partner is far safer than sleeping with many in the name of condoms. None is risk free but I believe we can reduce the level of risk.
As a woman, when do you insist that condoms must be worn? And when do you take the risk to enjoy it all RAW? What about the men too?