Mrs. Blessing, a housewife in her late thirties is no longer enjoying her once happy marriage after given birth to three kids. Haven exhausted all options and totally frustrated by her husband’s actions, she complained about her current predicament to a marriage counsellor, Yemisi, thus:
Below is Yemisi’s response to her. It could help you too in your own relationship:
Hope you are not suspecting your husband of infidelity because of your observation whenever you visit him in his work place?
You had better come to terms with this and hold your breath.
Now to his tiredness: You have to understand the workings of his job, I mean the nature of what he does for a living. I ‘m not his advocate, but you have to consider this.
You can only establish his claim if he has been caught pants down with ladies. He needs your assistance to get out of this problem if he comes out to tell you what his problem is.
If the cause of his tiredness is neither work-induced, nor occasioned by being promiscuous, he needs to see a sex therapist for counselling and guidance.
For you to maintain your sanity, reduce the frequency of your visit to his office and put your mind at rest.
Thank God you already have three children, the rest I believe is just for the fun of it. Let him know your feelings without any form of pretence.
From his reaction to your complaints, you will know the real source of his problem. Kindly keep tolerating him until he gets his act together…
