Nothing tastes as sweet nor as soft as a lovers promising kisses. A kiss can bring about instant arousal. The very first kiss can be a determining force for the future of a relationship. It involves all the senses. It can awaken passion, or turn your lover away.
Some men turn women off by their kisses. Sometimes men presume a woman is ready for sex when she hasn?t even made up her mind if she likes him. This is a demonstration of selfishness because it doesn?t take into consideration how the woman is feeling.
So also some people have problems letting go of their inhibitions and are squeamish about intimacy thus when they kiss it?s a dead kiss. The kind of kiss that seems to say, ?Don?t give me any of your germs?. Whereas some are unable to control their animalistic instincts. They come on as so eager you get the feeling they are trying to swallow your teeth, fillings and all.
Fast and furious kisses may sometime spoil the mood for sex. Kissing is a very passionate act and will gently enhance the mood for sex. There are different sensitive spots, when kissed will create great pleasure that is why you should not just kiss the lips, explore the whole body. Do not miss out on common neglected erogenous zones of your lover?s body such as the neck, earlobes, spine, shoulder, inner thighs abdomen and so on. These are great areas to turn your lover on.
The skill of kissing does not simply consist of knowing how to manoeuvre your tongue inside the mouth without hitting the tonsils; rather it involves the entire mouth, the lips, tongue, teeth, and the rest of the body.
Women?s lips are among their erogenous areas, it?s very important for men to leave a lasting eroticized impression. If you French kiss her like no other, you will probably get to kiss something else soon afterwards.
Holding her face firmly but gently while you slip your tongue inside her mouth and suck her lips will definitely make her toes curl. Pulling her hair back from the back roots or slightly squeezing the part of her body that is located right under her breast could make for some very tantalising sessions.
TIPS FOR THE FIRST KISS:
If you are intending to kiss someone for the first time, you should check your breath. Avoid strong foods like onions, garlic or strong flavours. Go for it with a clean fresh breath. If you are in doubt about your breath, suck a mint.
Make sure that the mood and time are right. Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders and act confidently. Nothing ruins a first kiss more than uncertainty. This confidence is very important, as hard as it is to get a kiss the first time, it will be harder to get one after a failed attempt. Once you have decided you are going to kiss someone, choose the moment and go for it. Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
It is best to start off simply with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive, just as if you were eating Ice cream from a cone in an unhurried manner. Closing your eyes is optional. When it feels right tilt your head slightly to one side to avoid clashing noses, lean in and press your lips onto your partner?s lips softly, so you don?t bump teeth then French Kiss. French kiss is not invented by the French although they are probably good at it refers to the kind of kiss where you insert your tongue deep into the other person?s mouth and move it about. It is perhaps best described by what you should not do. You should try to avoid swirling aggressively like an electric eel caught in a fishing net, but equally you should not let your entire tongue go completely limp and flossy. It feels right when you are probably doing it right. It takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice it.
Move from short soft kisses into longer, deeper ones, and then back again. Change the angle by moving your head to the other side and alternate between sucking the lower lip and the upper lip. When you are ready to really turn up the heat kiss the neck and move your lips slowly up to the earlobes and give a light nibble. Someone is sure to start breathing heavily at this stage.
Kissing and nibbling the neck is perfectly acceptable when snogging and is the reason for the term necking.
Love bites (marks left on the skin, usually the neck or shoulder caused by excessive lip suction on the skin) are actually up to you but I think They are great. They remind you of the great moments you have had with this wonderful person.
Do not let boredom set in. There should be variety in everything.
One should take care who you kiss because diseases such as mononucleosis and herpes can be contracted through kissing. The infectious organism is present in saliva. Research has shown that contracting HIV through kissing is extremely unlikely, however a woman has been infected with HIV by kissing in 1997, both the woman and the infected man had gum disease so transmission was through the man?s blood not saliva.
Enakeno is a journalist and television producer
